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		<title>Theorists of Child Development Part Three</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://thatparentplace.com/2008/09/08/theorists-of-child-development-part-three/"><img align="left" hspace="5" width="150" height="150" src="http://thatparentplace.com/wp-content/plugins/thumbnail-for-excerpts/tfe_no_thumb.png" class="alignleft wp-post-image tfe" alt="" title="" /></a>If you can remember far enough back, I wrote both part one and two of this series on Theorists of Child Development.  My first post was about Freud and my second was aboutErikson.  Today, I am going to take us closer to the end of this series and discuss Piaget.  If you are not sure [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you can remember far enough back, I wrote both part one and two of this series on Theorists of Child Development.  My first post was about <a href="http://thatparentplace.com/2008/05/23/theorists-of-child-development-part-one/">Freud</a> and my second was about<a href="http://thatparentplace.com/2008/06/20/theorists-of-child-development-part-two/">Erikson</a>.  Today, I am going to take us closer to the end of this series and discuss Piaget.  If you are not sure who Piaget was, let me give you a little information about the man before I start going on and on about his theories. </p>
<p>Jean Piaget (1896 t0 1980) was born in Neuchatel Switzerland.  He studied the Cognitive Development of first animals then humans.  Like Freud and Erikson, Piaget believed that a number of developmental milestones occur throughout childhood.  He group his Theory of Cognitive Development into 4 stages: Sensorimotor Stage, Preoperational Stage, Concrete Operational Stage, and Formal Operational Stage.  </p>
<p>Piaget also went on to identify Schema, which are structures that allow a child to gain knowledge.  Each level of development had a different schema such as the sucking relex in infants.  When something does not fit an existing schema, such as the first time a child eats solid food without needing to suck, it presents a problem where the child must learn to adapt. </p>
<p>Piaget believed that cognitive ability was an inborn trait that deals with adapting to the world around it.  He also believed that children learned through two different means.  These were assimilation, where the child learns by using and adapting an already existing schema, such as sucking moves to the developmental stage where a child mouths objects, and accommodation, where a child will change her schema to accommodate the encounter. </p>
<p> Now that I touched on Piaget, let&#8217;s look at each of his stages separately.</p>
<p>Piaget&#8217;s Stage of Cognitive Development:</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Sensorimotor Stage:</strong>  This stage occurred during the age of birth to 2 years of age.  It is the stage where a child&#8217;s cognitive development is encouraged by the senses and the child&#8217;s movement.  Piaget went on to break this stage into 6 sub-stages.
<ul>
<li><strong>Reflexes:</strong>  This is the stage when the infant is still relying on reflexes to understand the world around him.  Things like the Morro Reflex, which is when a child startles, or the Rooting Reflex, when the baby turns its head when the cheek is stroked. </li>
<li><strong>Primary Circular Reactions:</strong> Occurs between the ages of 1 to 4 months of age and is the stage where the child will do something unintentionally but will repeat it to form a new schema. </li>
<li><strong>Secondary Circular Reactions:</strong>  This next stage occurs between the ages of 4 to 8 months and it is when the child will use an action, and repeat it, to see a reaction from the world around him.  Things like pointing to a bottle will trigger the response of mom or dad to give her a bottle. </li>
<li><strong>Coordination of Reactions:</strong> Occurring between 8 and 12 months, this is the stage where the child will intentionally use a schema and may begin to combine schemas together to start exploring the world around her.</li>
<li><strong>Tertiary Circular Reaction:</strong> 12 to 18 months of age is when you will see this sub-stage and it is basically your child trying to figure out the world around him through trial and error style of learning.</li>
<li><strong>Early Representational Thought:</strong> This sub-stage occurs between 18 to 24 months and is the period where the child begins thinking with symbolic representation.  Exploration of the world around him is no longer through actions but is through thought as well.</li>
</ul>
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<li><strong>Preoperational Stage:</strong>  This stage occurs during the ages of 2 to 7 years old and it is the stage where the child&#8217;s language is significantly developed.  In this stage, children are using representational objects for the world around them and they are unable to understand concrete logic.  Piaget identified this stage of development as the one where children are egocentric. </li>
<li><strong>Concrete Operational Stage:</strong> Occurring between the ages of 7 to 11 years old, this is the stage where children begin to develop their logical thinking.  They can understand the concrete operations of the world around them but they have a harder time understanding abstract thinking.</li>
<li><strong>Formal Operational Stage: </strong> This is the stage that goes from 11 years and throughout adulthood.  It is the stage where a person is able to think in abstract ways and also able to use deductive reasoning.</li>
</ul>
<p>There are many pros and cons to Piaget&#8217;s theories and it is important to note that while Piaget had some excellent points to make about the importance of education and the cognitive development, there were some weaknesses to his theory.  One of the biggest weaknesses is the fact that most of his work focused on the development of his own children.  He also failed to consider differences in culture, emotional and personal development and also on the differences in education systems.  Lastly, Piaget often underestimated the abilities of the children that he was studying.</p>
<p>So there is a rather long summary of Jean Piaget.  Please check back in a few weeks and I will go over behaviourists.</p>
<p>Sirena Van Schaik</p>


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		<title>Encouraging Reading Part One: Your Infant</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jun 2008 10:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://thatparentplace.com/2008/06/23/encouraging-reading-part-one-your-infant/"><img align="left" hspace="5" width="150" src="http://thatparentplace.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/03/rimg1520.JPG" class="alignleft wp-post-image tfe" alt="" title="Crawling Post" /></a>I am a big fan of reading, huge, gigantic, enormous. I can add many adjectives to just how big of a fan I am but I think I may have already got my point across and one look at the boxes of books that I don&#8217;t have room for will confirm it. For this reason, [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://thatparentplace.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/03/rimg1520.JPG"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-14" style="float: left;" title="Crawling Post" src="http://thatparentplace.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/03/rimg1520.JPG" alt="" width="150" height="112" /></a>I am a big fan of reading, huge, gigantic, enormous.  I can add many adjectives to just how big of a fan I am but I think I may have already got my point across and one look at the boxes of books that I don&#8217;t have room for will confirm it.</p>
<p>For this reason, probably not the only reason, I am a firm believer that reading should be part of the daily routine, not only for the child but for parents as well.  Studies have shown that children who see both of their parents reading, are more likely to read themselves.  So the whole idea of children learn through example is evident when it comes to reading.</p>
<p>What many people don&#8217;t know, is that a love of reading is not something that you pick up when you are old enough to read.  It actually starts in the early years and it can be fostered in children as young as a few days old.  Sure you won&#8217;t see the effects of this reading until they are much older but you will know that the groundwork will be in place.</p>
<p>Many children learn to read around age 6 when it becomes a necessity in school.  This can start sooner and I know that my son&#8217;s Kindergarten class brought books home on a weekly basis to begin reading.  I was actually blown away by how well my son picked up reading and experienced a confusing mesh of disappointment and pride when he asked me if he could read  not only his own bedtime story but his brother&#8217;s bedtime book as well when he was 6.</p>
<p>Reading is such an important skill for everyone to learn and starting off right can encourage not only the skill but a life long enjoyment of reading and learning.</p>
<p>So how does this apply to infants?</p>
<p>Although an infant is not going to understand exactly what you are doing, it will set a routine that will become as cherished as bath time.  It will also encourage later skills and will help build attention spans.  People were always amazed when my active toddler(s) would sit for a half hour just to listen to three or four picture books and I remember the only way I could get through long car drives was by reciting by memory <a href="http://childrensbooks.about.com/cs/picturebooks/fr/wildthings.htm">Where the Wild Things Are</a> by Maurice Sendak, <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Goodnight_Moon">Goodnight Moon</a> by Margaret Wise  Brown and illustrated by Clement Hurd, <a href="http://www.nancypolette.com/LitGuidesText/LittleOldLadyWhoWasNotAfraidOfAnything.htm">The Little Old Lady Who Was Not Afraid of Anything</a> by Linda Williams and illustrated by Megan Lloyd and many other favorites that I had read hundreds of times (so many times that they are forever burned on my memory)</p>
<p>The reason for this love of story was started when my kids were only 3 days old and we began reading together and this is something that I recommend to all parents.</p>
<p>Encouraging Reading in your Infant:</p>
<ul>
<li>Start when they are young:  Start reading to your child when they are only a few days old.  The luxury of this is that you get to have some quiet time, read a nice story and spend those moments snuggling with your baby.  This builds trust and a parent child bond, which have nothing to do with reading, exactly, but help your child&#8217;s development across the board.</li>
<li>Start with the classics:  When you are reading with your child, start with the old classics.  Childhood favorites that you loved.  There is no need to stick with picture books since your child isn&#8217;t really looking at the pictures but is instead looking at you and listening to your voice.  I started with <a href="http://www.kirjasto.sci.fi/ebwhite.htm">E.B. White&#8217;s</a> The Trumpeter Swan and moved on to his other books Charlotte&#8217;s Web and Stuart Little but you can start with any children&#8217;s treasure.</li>
<li>Move up to fun books:  Just as simple as that, as your child becomes more aware of the world around her, start looking at picture books and pops up.  My kid&#8217;s favorite was a Clifford book with a big Clifford head coming out the front of a dog shaped book.</li>
<li>Be silly:  At this stage, when your child is sitting up, books do not have to be serious.  Sit on the floor in front of your child, read the book, make silly faces and play with the book.  One of our favorite pastimes was to sit with my kids in the recliner, me on my knees in front of them, holding up a pop up book or the <a href="http://teacher.scholastic.com/clifford1/">Clifford</a> book.  At the end of the story,<a href="http://teacher.scholastic.com/clifford1/"> Clifford</a>, or in the case of one pop up, a big Moose, would lick their noses.  They would squeal in delight and want me to read the book again in hopes of experiencing the squeal inducing ending again.</li>
</ul>
<p>I know that it may not seem like much but there is a lot going on behind the scenes at this age.  Over the next few weeks, I will look at ways parents can encourage reading for all the age groups.</p>
<p>Until then, pick up a good novel.  I know I will.</p>
<p>Sirena Van Schaik</p>


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		<title>Theorists of Child Development Part Two</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://thatparentplace.com/2008/06/20/theorists-of-child-development-part-two/"><img align="left" hspace="5" width="150" height="150" src="http://thatparentplace.com/wp-content/plugins/thumbnail-for-excerpts/tfe_no_thumb.png" class="alignleft wp-post-image tfe" alt="" title="" /></a>If you remember a few weeks ago, I started a post on the Theorists of Child Development and by the end of a pretty long post, I had only covered Freud and some of his theories. I did hint that I was going to move on to Erik Erikson in a few weeks and today [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you remember a few weeks ago, I started a post on the <a href="http://thatparentplace.com/2008/05/23/theorists-of-child-development-part-one/">Theorists of Child Development</a> and by the end of a pretty long post, I had only covered Freud and some of his theories.  I did hint that I was going to move on to Erik Erikson in a few weeks and today you get to read a fun post surrounding Erikson.</p>
<p>If you want to review the first part of these posts, please click <a href="http://thatparentplace.com/2008/05/23/theorists-of-child-development-part-one/">here</a> but to give you a recap, Freud is the father of psychoanalysis and he believed that the human personality was made up of three parts: The Id, the Superego and the Ego.  Each one works to temper the other and the ego works the hardest to fulfill the needs of the Id.</p>
<p>Freud also went on to explain the stages of development which included Oral, Anal, Phallic, Latency and Genital stages.  Each one occurs at a specific age of development and if you are interested in learning more, please read <a href="http://thatparentplace.com/2008/05/23/theorists-of-child-development-part-one/">Theorists of Child Development Part One</a>.</p>
<p>So why the little recap on Freud, the main reason is that Erik Erikson (1902-1994) was a psychoanalyst that not only studied Freud&#8217;s theories but expanded them.  He felt that our development was affected by the social and cultural influences that are around us.  He also believed that even a child who suffered during some of the developmental stages has the ability to overcome the obstacles and deficits from the earlier stages.</p>
<p>Erik Erikson felt that each stage in development was faced with a crisis and that successfully overcoming the crisis would help build the skills necessary to good mental health.  He also believed that each resolution was a combination of both positive and negative experiences and the key was to find a balance between the two.</p>
<p>Many of the theories of child development are the result of Erik Erikson&#8217;s work and for the purpose of this post, I will look at the developmental stages that Erik Erikson identified and a short little explanation of each one.</p>
<p>Erik Erikson had 8 stages of development, but he did not focus on child development only.  These stages span the entire life of a person from infancy until old age and ultimately death.  For the purpose of this blog, I am going to stick to the stages of development which affect children from infancy until 18 years of age.</p>
<p>Erikson&#8217;s Stages of Development:</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Trust vs Mistrust: </strong> Since Erik Erikson looked at the outcome at the end of a stage, his stages are labelled differently than other theorists.  He believed that the ego would suffer or benefit from each stage and gave the desired outcome to the stage.  For Trust vs Mistrust, it is fairly obvious that the positive outcome would be trust while the negative outcome would be mistrust.  This stage occurs between the ages of birth to 18 months and is the stage when a child learns that his needs will be met.  The bonding that goes on between parent (or primary caregiver) and child is important to fostering the trust necessary to build on greater self esteem and self worth later in the child&#8217;s development.  If needs are not met or the child is not held, comforted or cared for properly, mistrust begins to form and can lead to even more detrimental feelings as the child grows.</li>
<li><strong>Autonomy vs Shame:</strong> This stage occurs between the ages of 18 months and 3 years of age and as you may have guessed, this is the toddler stage where children will begin the process of autonomy.  Toilet training occurs during this stage, along with many exciting and frustrating aspects of development such as dressing and feeding one self.  If there is a balance of positive experiences, a child will come through this stage with not only autonomy but a strong feeling of self esteem.  If the experiences are negative, such as parents becoming frustrated and angry at potty accidents during toilet training, feelings of shame will be evident.</li>
<li><strong>Initiative vs Guilt: </strong> Spanning the ages of 3 to 5, this stage is when children begin to take the initiative in activities.  This may be small things or they may be large but the key is that children are taking the lead and parents are allowing them to do so (as long as everyone is safe).  If initiative is not allowed or encouraged feelings of guilt may occur, and as with all the other stages, may lead to feelings of worthlessness.</li>
<li><strong>Industry vs Inferiority: </strong>Occurring between the ages of 6 and 12, children are beginning to branch out and interact with peers and at school.  There are moments of industry where the child is learning and creating and there are moments when children may feel a little inferior to the other people around them.  A balance between both builds on feelings of competency.</li>
<li><strong>Identity vs Role Confusion: </strong>The teen years are always confusing no matter how well the other stages of development went.  During the ages of 12 and 18, children are in a limbo of sorts where they are expected to act more grown up, actually feel the need to do so, but are still limited in what they can do since they are not grown up. It is a stage where limits are tested, more than others, self identity as both an individual and a peer takes place and morality is developed on a more personal level.  It is no longer a simple matter of &#8220;Because my parents said it was wrong.&#8221;  Again, self esteem, self worth, independence and many other traits can be harmed if there are too many negative experiences.</li>
</ul>
<p>Erik Erikson went on to explore stages after these but they deal with adult development and not child development.  It is interesting to note that for all of these stages, Erik Erikson identified key relationships that are important in the development of the child.  From infancy to the age of 6, the important relationships are with parents and family.  After 6 there is a shift in relationships from family to school to peers,  and although family is still important it is not the key relationship.</p>
<p>So that is it for Erik Erikson, in a few weeks, I will look at Jean Piaget and go over his theories. After that, I will touch on a few other theorists, although not in the length that I have done with Erikson and Freud.</p>
<p>Sirena Van Schaik</p>


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<p>You shouldn&#8217;t be worried too much.  This is a fairly common stage in development for young toddlers.  The world is ripe for exploration and it can be pretty frustrating for any young child to be taken from a fun activity for a diaper change.  Suddenly, she can&#8217;t go where she wants or play with what she wants.</p>
<p>Add to that frustration any diaper rashes and you can have a lot of problems when it comes to diapering but there are ways to get over these diapering problems.</p>
<h4><strong>The Frustrating Diaper Change:</strong></h4>
<ul>
<li>Capture attentions:  Since diaper changing can be frustrating for a child on the go, it is a good suggestion to have a mobile hanging above the diaper area just out of reach of grasping hands.  The child will be busy looking at the wonderful decorations swirling around his head that he won&#8217;t have time to struggle during the diaper change.  I have found that blank cd&#8217;s hanging from fishing line are a huge hit since they cast rainbows and glitter in the light.</li>
<li>Sing a song:  Sing a few songs while you are changing diapers.  Before you and your child know it the song will be over and so will the diaper change.</li>
<li>Have a few toys:  Toys are great ways to capture attention.  Even having a few washable books available will also alleviate some of the frustration your child may feel with being taken from an activity.</li>
<li>Play a game:  Playing a game will also help make diapering enjoyable and provide a great opportunity for some bonding.  &#8220;This little piggy,&#8221; or other games are great or you can play a tactile game by tickling toes or elbows with a cloth or a wipe.</li>
</ul>
<h4>The Sore Diapering:</h4>
<p>If there are troubles involving diaper rashes there are a few things that you can do to alleviate the problem.</p>
<ul>
<li>Use cloth wipes:  Some children are sensitive to wipes and using wet clothes for diapering routines can help alleviate some diaper rashes.</li>
<li>Change the brand:  When my oldest was a year, I switched from a tried and true diaper brand to a no name brand. A friend&#8217;s sister worked for the brand company and told me that they were both made by the same company so there was very little difference between the two.  I quickly noticed the difference when my son broke out into angry welts across his diaper area.  I switched back to my first brand, applied a lot of zincofax and after a few days, his skin went back to normal.  So the long story is, if you are dealing with reoccurring diaper rashes, it may be the brand of diapers, wet wipes or diaper cream.</li>
<li>Let the skin air out:  Allow your child some diaper free time.  This is a bit nerve wracking since an accident can happen at any time but it will help the skin get some much needed air.</li>
</ul>
<p>Another method that may help alleviate diapering troubles is to change the location of diapering.  Some children do not like being up high on a change table, even if they had no problem with it earlier.  Moving to a bed or even the floor can help with diapering problems and should be much easier on your back when your child gets heavier.</p>
<p>All the best and hopefully your diapering troubles will be over soon.</p>
<p>Sirena Van Schaik</p>


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		<title>Your Baby at 3 months</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jun 2008 10:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://thatparentplace.com/2008/06/15/your-baby-at-3-months/"><img align="left" hspace="5" width="150" src="http://thatparentplace.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/rimg1200-150x150.jpg" class="alignleft wp-post-image tfe" alt="" title="rimg1200" /></a>It is always amazing how quickly a child grows. One moment they are nestled safe in your tummy and you are worrying about the delivery, being ready and a whole number of other things. The next, they are raiding the fridge and asking you why you forgot to buy the volcano flavored Yogurt Tubes. It [...]


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<p>It is always amazing how quickly a child grows.  One moment they are nestled safe in your tummy and you are worrying about the delivery, being ready and a whole number of other things.  The next, they are raiding the fridge and asking you why you forgot to buy the volcano flavored Yogurt Tubes.</p>
<p>It can be overwhelming at times but usually it is a constant state of wonder as you watch your infant grow from newborn to new adult.</p>
<p>For many parents, the amount of development seen in the first three months can be mind boggling and you quickly realize that this isn&#8217;t just a cute bundle of joy but also an individual with a personality.  Sure there will be times when your child will show larger developments such as walking or potty training but all the small developments that are taking place now are the first in bringing your baby from the cute, sleep all day newborn to the rambunctious preschooler.</p>
<p>Below is a list of what your newborn should be doing by three months of age.  Remember that this is a range of normalcy and many factors can come into play when you look at the rate of development.  Also remember that if your child is premature, he or she may not develop as quickly as a full term infant but eventually (usually around age 4 or 5) he or she will catch up to other children in that age group.<a href="http://thatparentplace.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/rimg1273.jpg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-128" style="float: right;" title="rimg1273" src="http://thatparentplace.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/rimg1273-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a></p>
<ul>
<li>Is able to lift head while he is enjoying tummy time.</li>
<li>Can turn head from side to side</li>
<li>Should be able to lift head when he is resting against your shoulder</li>
<li>Recognizes mom and dad (or any main caregiver).</li>
<li>Begins to tract objects and will look at them and follow them by moving his head.  He won&#8217;t track objects with his eyes only.</li>
<li>Turns head towards sound.</li>
<li>Watch people in his life when they are feeding him, playing with him or simply holding.</li>
<li>Is able to be calmed when he is comforted.</li>
</ul>
<p>At this age, a baby will still need lots of attention and one on one time.  There is no such thing as &#8220;spoiling&#8221; a baby and you shouldn&#8217;t listen to those who say that you can.  This is a time when trust is being development and reaffirming, through actions, that you will be there when your baby needs you, is the best way to help nurture the bond that you have created.</p>
<p>Sirena Van Schaik</p>


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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jun 2008 10:16:47 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>If you breastfeed your baby, chances are there will come a time when you need to store breast milk. This can be when you return to work or even if you are only planning a few hours out.</p>
<p>Storing breastmilk can be one of the most confusing things for new mother&#8217;s and it is good to know how long it lasts, and how to properly store it. I have heard countless mother&#8217;s ask how to do this and at one time I was in this position, although for not very long obviously.</p>
<p>Even though my time breastfeeding was short, I can still offer some advice on storing breast milk. Most of my knowledge on breastfeeding and everything to do with it comes from organizations such as the <a href="http://www.lalecheleague.net/public">La Leche League</a> and the Hamilton-Wentworth Regional Lactation Committee. The rest of my knowledge came from my experience as a mother and an Early Childhood Educator, especially the parts about using stored breast milk in centers and also the public health nurse and the lactation consultants who worked with me when I had my children.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.sxc.hu/photo/149176"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-137" style="float: left;" title="149176_2522" src="http://thatparentplace.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/149176_2522-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>So now that I have highlighted a little bibliography, I thought I would give you some tips on storing breast milk.</p>
<p><strong>How to </strong><strong>store breast milk:</strong></p>
<p>After you pump, there are several things that you should do if you are planning on storing your breast milk and these are standard practices regardless of the type of breast pump that you are using.</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Containers:</strong> All containers should be sturdy, and clean. They should also be single used containers and are usually glass and plastic, although with the warnings regarding hard plastics, it may be safer to only use glass containers. Never store breast milk in plastic bags or bottle liners.</li>
<li><strong>Labelling:</strong> Make sure you label each container with the date and time that the milk was expressed. This will make it much easier when you are using it and will ensure that you do not use the breast milk after the expiration.</li>
<li><strong>Mixing:</strong> It is important to never mix breast milk. Each time you express, the milk should be placed in a new bottle or container. You should also never mixed any breast milk left in a bottle after feeding with a fresher bottle. Simply dispose of the breast milk since bacteria is pulled back into the bottle with each suck from the baby. Also, you should never mix breast milk and formula. Everything baby needs is in the breast milk and there should be no need to use formula. If you are concerned about supplementing, speak with your pediatrician first.</li>
<li><strong>Storage Length:</strong> Breast milk can usually last for 24 to 48 hours in a refrigerator. After that time, you should dispose of it. If you freeze the breast milk in a freezer that is attached to the fridge, it can last for about 2 weeks to about 3 months with a good freezer, although I would stick with the lower numbers for safety reasons. If you store the breast milk in a deep freezer that is not attached to any fridge, you will find that the breast milk can last for 6 months.</li>
<li><strong>Heating Stored Breast milk:</strong> When it comes to heating, the best method and really the only method you should use, is to heat it up in cup of warm (not hot) water. If the breast milk is frozen, place it in the fridge for about 24 hours before you use it. Never heat the breast milk in a microwave since it can create hot spots and nutrients will be lost in the heating process.</li>
</ul>
<p>And there is a run down of storing and using stored breast milk. If you have any other questions, please email me at <a href="mailto:sirena_vanschaik@yahoo.ca">sirena_vanschaik@yahoo.ca</a> or post a comment here.</p>
<p>One last thing before I sign off for today, when breast milk is left in a fridge, you will find that it separates with the thinner milk on the bottom and the thicker fatter milk on top. You may also find white flecks in the milk after you heat it but don&#8217;t worry, that is completely normal.</p>
<p>All the best,</p>
<p>Sirena Van Schaik</p>
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		<title>Bottle Battles</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 01:22:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://thatparentplace.com/2008/05/16/bottle-battles/"><img align="left" hspace="5" width="150" src="http://thatparentplace.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/868023_newborn_drinking_milk-150x150.jpg" class="alignleft wp-post-image tfe" alt="" title="868023_newborn_drinking_milk" /></a>Breastfeeding really is best for a child but not everyone is able to breastfeed for various reasons. For my own children, I was able to breastfeed for roughly one month but neither of them were breastfeeding well. My oldest was not latching and I was losing milk production very quickly. My youngest latched perfectly and [...]


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<p>Breastfeeding really is best for a child but not everyone is able to breastfeed for various reasons.  For my own children, I was able to breastfeed for roughly one month but neither of them were breastfeeding well.</p>
<p>My oldest was not latching and I was losing milk production very quickly.  My youngest latched perfectly and gulped down long pulls of milk, but he stopped gaining and even dropped a few ounces.  After trying to pump my breast milk so I could skim it and feed him the fatty part between breastfeeding, all the while I had an active 3 year old who didn&#8217;t understand why breastfeeding took up roughly 21 hours of my day, I had to give up the ghost and switch to a bottle.</p>
<p>It was a heartwrenching experience and I equated it to being a failure as a mother, something that wasn&#8217;t true at all but I will go into that on another day.  The main point is that by a month old, both of my kids were bottle fed.  This meant that at a year old, I had to start thinking about weaning them from the bottle.</p>
<p>I was pleasantly surprised when it wasn&#8217;t as difficult as I have heard and it all came down to how I approached it.  I have listed a few things to do to make the transition from bottle to none much easier.</p>
<ul>
<li>Never start with a bedtime bottle.  Give your baby an evening bottle and then let him stay up for an additional half hour before settling him down for the night.  When your baby is young, you won&#8217;t have much choice but as he ages and his bottles become further apart, drop out that bedtime bottle first.  Trust me, not having to use a bottle to get him to sleep will be a life saver for when he is older.</li>
<li>When your child begins drinking juice, never place it into a bottle and use a sippy cup instead.  This teaches him from the start that the only thing that goes into a bottle is milk.  He won&#8217;t get used to asking for juice in a bottle.</li>
<li>When you are weaning your child, stop the evening bottle first.  Instead, offer him a bedtime snack and a cup of milk.  This will leave the afternoon bottle and the morning bottle.</li>
<li>The second bottle that you should remove is the afternoon bottle.  By the age of 14 months, my oldest was only offered the morning bottle and it was not associated with any sleep routines such as bedtime or nap time.</li>
<li>Lastly, take the cues from your child when you decide to take the morning bottle away.  You may find that you will need to take it if your child is not giving it up but it is much easier to distract him if he is not using it as an aid for comfort or sleep.</li>
</ul>
<p>My youngest son didn&#8217;t want anything to do with his bottle by the time he was 13 months old, even before I was ready to have him give up the bottle but I took his cue and put the bottles up.  My oldest was 15 months when he gave up his morning bottle but he didn&#8217;t give any cues.  I simply didn&#8217;t give it to him one morning and he never seemed to notice.  He just took the sippy cup, had a nice big drink and then ran off to start his day.</p>
<p>So weaning does not have to be a huge battle and can be fairly easy if you plan for it from a young age.  If it is a struggle, don&#8217;t worry, you will soon get through it.</p>
<p>Sirena Van Schaik</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, can you believe that your baby has grown a year.  I know I was always surprised when that first birthday rolled around for both of my kids.  I felt like I had missed out on something, that maybe I hadn&#8217;t cuddled enough or really enjoyed those quiet moments that are so normal for infants.  I was excited about that first birthday but I knew soon enough, my baby would be a toddler, doing all the toddler activities. </p>
<p>At a year old, your baby has already accomplished so much in his or her short life.  He should have tripled his body weight, at least, with some kids gaining more and he should be well on his way to eating solids.  The last year has brought many firsts but don&#8217;t worry, your baby will have many more firsts to come.  Developmentally, your baby should be able to crawl, and should be pulling himself up with the help of furniture.  Some children are even walking at the age of a year but remember that the range of normalcy for walking is between 11 to 18 months of age.  Some children walk at a much later age and it can be perfectly normal for them, however; please talk to your child&#8217;s pediatrician if you are concerned with their development.</p>
<p>A few other skills that your baby should have built on by the age of one are the following:</p>
<ul>
<li>Shows emotions</li>
<li>Is able to hold a sippy cup or a bottle on his or her own.</li>
<li>Will play games with people.  Things like repeating sounds, peek a boo, etc.</li>
<li>Your baby should understand simple requests like, &#8220;Touch your nose. Don&#8217;t touch, ect.&#8221;</li>
<li>Should be able to move into a sitting position without any assistance.</li>
</ul>
<p>There are many developmental checklists available for parents, but the one that I found the most helpful is the Nipissing District Developmental Screen.  I have used the checklists as both an Early Childhood Educator, assessing the developmental strengths of children in my class and also as a parent.  Each checklist has some wonderful tips on how to encourage your child&#8217;s development.  I would strongly suggest ordering the series of checklists that they have.  If you are from Ontario (I&#8217;m not sure how it works in other provinces or countries), you should receive them after you have had your baby, but if you didn&#8217;t receive them I&#8217;m sure that you can order them right from Nipissing.  <a href="http://ndds.ca/ontario/samplescreen.html">Here</a> is a sample checklist and the homepage for<a href="http://www.ndds.ca/"> Nipissing</a>. </p>
<p> With that, I want to sign off today with a <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=055ZA5kGfAs">video</a> of babies doing what they do best, being there cute little selves.  Enjoy</p>
<p>Sirena Van Schaik</p>


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